Most of parents are confused how to descipline their children when their children make troublesome. Moreover, i find that some parents do the way
that give bad effect to their children. For example, when children fight with their brother or sister. Parents will hit their children who make trouble. Then, they think that it is a good solution for them. Parents think that hitting them when they are false, it will make them regret with what they do. In contrast, it will make children being coward. Therefore, although disciplining our children early is important, parents should discipline their children using appropriate way which doesn't destroy mental and character of children.
So, i will mention the important things of disciplining children:
1. Children will obey every rule that made by parents.
2. Children will do everything based on the rule by themselves without compulsion.
3. It will give influence of their character.
4. It will give them advantages of their future life.
Because most of successful people come from person who is disciplined.
Here, i will give you one example. For example, when your children make a noise in your house or they fight with their sibling, parents shouldn't scream or shout for their mistake. Parents should speak clearly to their children in their room, "honey, do you know what is your mistake?", parents should give them time to realize their mistake about 5-10 minutes. If they know what is their mistake, please make a promise with your children, parents ask them to do not do it again. Then, parents give them the reason and explain well using language that can be understood by children.
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